Guest Post – Izzy Swanson on Being a Business Owner
Izzy Swanson from Feileacan Ministry had a wee rant on Facebook today, and I thought it was gorram RELATABLE that I asked her if I could turn it into a guest post. So here you go.
My friend Angela said it best “Business owner, it’s not just a job it’s a lifestyle”.
It is a life I am beyond grateful for but it comes with a lot of responsibilities. There are things I don’t think people really know about this life so I want to share a few:
1. I’m always “busy”. Not too busy that I need to hear sympathies or unsolicited advice about how to take care of myself, but my life is scheduled and that means I’m rarely going to have time to do anything random. People constantly say and do things that make you feel bad for this including just not being your friend altogether. This is a bummer but something I am no longer losing sleep over.
2. I have serious boundaries about my down time. If I say I’m not working I mean I am literally disappearing from everything except random social media posts. Posting on facebook does not mean I’m working. Football means I’m not working. As mentioned above I take care of myself. Busy includes self-care time. You would be surprised how much judgement there is about this and how much people don’t respect those boundaries.
3. This is my livelihood. It means that it is my first priority so other things have to come second, except my husband and son of course. It also means that my work is how I pay my bills, it is how I make sure I can feed my child and meet his needs, and is also how I can manage part 1 and part 2 above. This idea that I should be available to provide services for free because it is spiritual is not ok. If you recieve spiritual services and pastoral care from church ministers remember they recieve a salary for that. They are compensated for their time. The only difference here is that I’m pagan and I don’t have a church to pay my salary. I have to work for it.
4. Because it’s a business I have to spend a good portion of my time marketing and my livehood as mentioned above depends on this. Small business owners need support through feedback from the peoole they provide service to so if I ask for a review or a share remember it could mean the difference between paying my bills and not being able to. Try to be compassionate and not make peoole feel bad about the fact that they have to do this.
This isn’t meant to be a rant or target any one person. It’s something that happens in some form on a consistent basis. It’s something that needs awareness and needs to be understood. Thank you for reading and thank you for your support.